The 4th of July is just around the corner. You should look festive on this patriotic holiday, but at the same time make sure you don’t overdo it. When I was younger I remember wearing a white and blue star-spangled tube top with over-sized flag earrings and bright red lipstick—cute for a five year-old, but not someone the same age as you or me. The best way to look red hot and not over-the-top is to choose just two of the three festive colors and add in a neutral color like brown or black to break things up. Trust me, you don’t want to look like a walking 4th of July party, just someone who belongs at one.  SHEI put together a guide of what to wear and what not to wear to all of your festive 4th of July events.

A 4th of July Fashion Don't!

Nighttime Party

Wear This: A colorful bandage skirt and white flowy top with black pumps.

Not That: A red sequined mini dress with bright blue stilettos.

Fireworks Festival

Wear This: A cute color-block top, white shorts and wedges.

Not That: A red and white striped shirt, blue shorts and star-embellished flip flops.

Day at the Lake

Wear This: A red swimsuit, straw tote and sheer cover-up.

Not That: A red swimsuit with a flag across the butt, sparkly tote and striped cover-up.

Backyard BBQ

Wear This: White capris, a sheer blue or red top and gold accessories.

Not That: An “I <3 America” tee, star jewelry and flag accessories.

Here’s a look at the outfits you should wear this 4th of July weekend: